Friendship

Friendship can be earned with Mistria's residents. As friendships deepen, marriage is possible with one of the Marriage Candidates.
Mechanics
When talking to NPCs, either a gem or heart will be displayed next to their name. A heart indicates a marriage candidate. Regardless, the icon will change color depending on how close the Player is with said NPC. The Player gets closer to NPCs by increasing their Friendship Points level.
Each Friendship level (denoted by colored Hearts or Gems in their profile) is worth a set amount of Friendship points indicated in the table below. These points are primarily earned through gift-giving. You can give each character 1 gift per day. As of v0.13.4, the current maximum friendship level is 6.
Level | Hearts | Gems | Required Points |
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80 |
2 | ![]() ![]() |
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180 |
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280 |
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390 |
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530 |
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705 |
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900 |
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1125 |
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1400 |
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1755 |
Friendship points can be increased with each NPC by:
- giving a neutral, liked or loved gift (see Gifts)
- speaking to them once a day (+7 points)
Characters will have Heart Events at 2, 4, and 6 Hearts of friendship. Back to Top
Heart Events
As of v0.13.0, only marriage candidates have Heart Events, at 2, 4, and 6 Hearts of friendship.
For event details see the individual marriage candidate's page. Back to Top
The Player's Birthday
At 4 hearts (), marriage candidates will send The Player a birthday gift with a letter, in the mail on The Player's Birthday.
Birthday Gifts to The Player | ||
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Gift | Gift Giver | Letter |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday. [Player], |
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So it's your Birthday. [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Wishing you a very happy Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
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Happy Birthday! [Player], |
New in v0.13.3
Possible Spoiler Warning
This section contains content and information from Version v0.13.3. This could be considered spoilers. View at your own discretion.
Spoiler Warning
This page contains spoilers. View at your own discretion.
As of v0.13.3 Caldarus will also send The Player a birthday letter and gift.
However he will only do so at 6 hearts () and not 4 like other villagers, the
Story Quest "Breaking The Fire Seal" must also be completed.
Birthday Gifts to The Player | ||
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Gift | Gift Giver | Letter |
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Celebrating your birth [Player], |
Gifts
Each NPC has very specific taste in what they like. Each character has a list of gifts they Love, Like and Dislike, and only one gift they Hate. The rest of the giftable items that aren't in the aforementioned lists of a character are considered Neutral gifts. Check individual characters for their gift preference.
Gift Preference | Normal | Birthday (+20) |
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Loved | +20 | +40 |
Liked | +10 | +30 |
Neutral | +3 | +23 |
Disliked | +0 | +20 |
Hated | +0 | +20 |
Universally Liked and Loved Gifts
Outside of items with the Likeable or
Lovable Infusions, Fields of Mistria does not have items that are liked / loved by everyone.
Items that can be purchased with these Infusions are:
Alternatively, after unlocking the Lovable Cooking Skill or the Likeable cooking Skill, The Player has a chance of cooking any food recipe with the respective Infusion.
Universally Liked and Loved Gifts exceptions
As it contains caffeine, Floral Tea can not be given to any children (
Dell,
Luc,
Maple), nor animals (
Dozy,
Henrietta).
Despite its name however, Chicky Hot Chocolate does not contain chocolate, and so can be given to both
Dozy and
Henrietta.
Universal Disliked Gifts
- All Junk Items;
Fiber,
Hay,
Cattail Fluff,
Acorn,
Pinecone,
Sod,
Sap,
Doughlad Doll,
Newt
- All
Bugs
- All Weird Gifts;
Heart Shaped Animal Treats,
Cat Treat,
Dog Treat
Universal Dislikes exceptions
Celine
- Hates
Caterpillar
- Hates
Dell
- Loves
Hermit Crab
- Likes
Lightning Dragonfly,
Snail
- Neutral to all other
Bugs
- Loves
Dozy
- Loves
Crystalline Cricket,
Dog Treat
- Likes
Butterfly,
Cicada,
Cricket,
Firefly,
Fuzzy Moth,
Grasshopper,
Sod
- Neutral to all other
Bugs
- Loves
Elsie
- Hates
Praying Mantis
- Hates
Hayden
- Neutral to
Heart Shaped Animal Treats,
Cat Treat,
Dog Treat
- Neutral to
Holt
- Hates
Puddle Spider
- Hates
Luc
- Loves
Bumblebee,
Copper Nugget Beetle,
Fairy Bee,
Rhinoceros Beetle,
Roly Poly,
Sea Scarab,
Strobe Firefly,
Jewel Beetle
- Likes
Ant,
Butterfly,
Cricket,
Fuzzy Moth,
Hummingbird Hawk Moth,
Inchworm,
Mistmoth,
Monarch Butterfly,
Orchid Mantis,
Pond Skater,
Praying Mantis,
Puddle Spider,
Snowball Beetle
- Neutral to all other
Bugs
- Loves
Louis
- Hates
Fuzzy Moth
- Hates
Maple
- Loves
Monarch Butterfly
- Loves
March
- Hates
Redhead Worm
- Hates
Reina
- Hates
Tunnel Millipede
- Hates
Ryis
- Hates
Pond Skater
- Hates
Banned Gifts
Some characters have certain banned gifts you are unable to give them since it would be inappropriate, such as Alcohol for children, and Chocolate for animals.
Alcohol:
Caffeine:
Green Tea
Jasmine Tea
Mocha
Roasted Rice Tea
Rose Tea
Tea with Lemon
Iced Coffee
Coffee
Floral Tea
Lavender Tea
Heavy Mist
Confiscated Coffee
Espresso
Choco:
History
- v0.12.0:
- Romanceable’s Six Heart Events have been added.
- You can now level up all NPCs’ heart levels to 6 hearts.